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this is dearli.
four core tabs. one mission. see your people more.
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the app that finally takes the work out of staying close. less coordination, more time with the people who matter.
your social health score — tracked, not guessed
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your relationships predict your health and longevity as much as exercise, diet, and sleep. we have apps for all of those. but for the one that matters just as much? no tracking. no tools. no visibility into whether things are getting better or quietly getting worse.
four core tabs. one mission. see your people more.
growing up, seeing your people was effortless. you were close by, your time was your own, and life hadn't piled on yet. adulthood changed all of that. you're busier, more drained, more scattered, and nothing stepped in to replace what you lost.
the surgeon general declared loneliness a public health epidemic with health impacts on par with smoking 0 cigarettes a day.
and social media has made it worse. you see the people you love through stories and feeds every day, creating an illusion of closeness that masks how disconnected you actually are. you feel like you're keeping up because you liked their post — but you haven't sat across from your best friend in months, you keep meaning to call your parents, and the last real conversation with your partner was... when?
the caring was never the problem. the coordination was. there's nothing in your life designed to help you maintain your most important relationships. until now.
dearli learns who you care about, how you like to spend time together, and when you're actually free. then it handles the part that keeps not happening.
organize the people who matter — as individuals or groups — and set goals for how often you want to show up for them. dearli holds you to it.
want to see someone? one tap. dearli checks your calendars, picks a place you'll both love, and sends the invite. no 27-message thread required.
save the places and things you want to do, and dearli matches them to the right person at the right time — so they actually happen.
every morning, dearli surfaces who needs attention and builds a complete plan — the person, the place, the time. you just confirm. when both people use dearli, the agents coordinate directly and skip the back-and-forth entirely.
think of it as an apple watch for your relationships. three scores that show you exactly where you stand — and where things are quietly drifting.
dearli is proactive, not reactive. every day, it shows you who needs attention and gives you a clear action, not a vague reminder.
you open dearli and immediately see which relationships need attention most.
your college friend you haven't seen in three weeks. your mom you meant to call last weekend. your partner you've been meaning to plan a date night with. quick actions are ready: text, call, or initiate a spark.
not a vague "you should reach out" reminder. a specific plan.
that ramen place on your bucket list. this saturday at 7pm. they're free. one tap to send the invite.
→ dearli checks their availability before suggestingbefore you meet up, dearli briefs you — what's going on in their life, what to follow up on, anything you should know. afterward, your social health scores update. every interaction compounds. the more you use dearli, the less effort staying close takes.
you don't need anyone else to download the app. import your contacts, set goals, log interactions. dearli becomes your personal relationship dashboard — and drafts ready-to-send texts when someone's overdue.
availability syncs automatically. agents coordinate across the group. crew-level planning becomes effortless. the more of your circle that's on it, the less work it takes for everyone.
you love your people. you also carry the invisible weight of keeping everyone connected — and you're tired of being the only one who initiates. dearli distributes the labor so it's not all on you.
you think about your people constantly. you just don't act on it. weeks turn into months and the gap becomes the reason for the gap. dearli closes the loop before the guilt sets in.
your closest friends live in different cities and time zones. you'd talk more if finding a window didn't feel like a logistics problem. dearli finds the overlap so you can skip the coordination.
you think about calling your parents way more often than you actually do. you know it. they know it. dearli builds a rhythm so the guilt doesn't have to be what reminds you.
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